Dating app Parship, in collaboration with market research institute INNOFACT AG, surveyed more than 1,000 people aged 18 to 69 in Germany about their sex lives. Purpose of the study: To find out what is important for good sex. And at least 58 percent know clearly what is important. He told that he is very satisfied with his sex life.
However, for 21 percent of Germans, things are not so favorable when looked at horizontally. He told that he is dissatisfied with his sex life. While 30 to 40 year olds lead the way in terms of sexual satisfaction (41 percent), 50 to 59 year olds are more likely to be unhappy with the sex they have. 63 percent want more excitement in bed.
1. Bring your partner to orgasm
Whether it’s within your own four walls, in a car or in the dunes, it doesn’t matter – the main thing is that there is a happy ending. 47 percent of those surveyed said it was important that their partner climax. According to the study, men especially (62 percent) care about their partner’s orgasm. So for many people it still seems important to have orgasms during sex – ideally both.
2. Feeling good
44 percent of the people surveyed said that they want to feel comfortable during sex. Young people in their 20s and 30s, and especially women, said this is a factor that makes sex good for them.
3. The climax itself
Reaching climax during sex is especially important for men. 49 percent said that for them their own orgasm is part of good sex. As is usually the case, women approach this matter in a more intuitive way. Only 29 percent of them think their own orgasm is important.
4. Feel good in your body
It is especially important for women to feel good in their bodies during sex. At 39 percent, it is the second most important factor in good sex for them. Men, on the other hand, don’t judge good sex based on how they feel in their bodies.
5. Communicate desires
People in their 20s and 30s, in particular, said they would like to communicate their wants and needs to their partner in bed. Especially women share it. 27 percent value good communication.
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